31 Questions To Ask a Girl
The best way to spark a great conversation is by asking questions. Whether you are trying to know your crush a little more or trying to have a conversation with a date, great questions are the way to go!
There are different questions you can ask a girl; funny questions, flirty questions, real questions, and on. The questions should depend on the reaction you want or the feelings you want to evoke. No worries, this article is going to get you through the different types of questions you can ask a girl.
Meanwhile, remember to be charming while asking them, you don’t want her to think you crammed the questions the night before.
Now let’s get into questions that spark great conversations.
Table of Contents
- Good questions to ask a girl
- Funny questions to ask a girl
- Personal questions to ask a girl
- Flirty questions to ask a girl
- Deep questions to ask a girl
- Dirty questions to ask a girl
Good questions to ask a girl
1. What is your favorite tv show?
This a common, but great question, especially if you are into TV shows too. When she replies, it will lead to other conversations like telling you why she loves it so much, who her favorite character is, and so on.
Even better if you follow the show yourself, both of you can exchange opinions.
2. What’s the greatest gift someone has ever given to you?
This is an interesting question to know a girl better. It’s a way to get to know what moves or impresses her.
3. What would you grab if your house was on fire?
This question will let you know her priorities and the things that are important to her. Perhaps she’s the type of girl who would get her childhood toy first, at least she will get to tell you why what she chooses to save is essential to her.
4. Where is the most exciting place you’ve been?
You can know a lot about a girl by finding out the place that was most interesting to her. You get to know more about her taste, how she sees life, and she may even start talking about other places she’s been to.
5. What’s your biggest pet peeve?
We all have things that annoy us or don’t sit well with us. Ask her about hers. Perhaps that will make you avoid doing such things around her.
Funny questions to ask a girl
1. What weird smell do you like?
Everyone has a weird thing they like, and you will be surprised by the funny and unexpected answer you may get. When she answers this question, let her know the weird smell you like too.
2. Would you rather live in a world or magic or superheroes?
Magic and superheroes are excellent conversation themes that evokes a light-hearted and funny banter. You get to know the superheroes she was into as a kid, or maybe she prefers a world where the shoe can only fit Cinderella.
3. Would you rather have a paid expense every time you travel or get free food forever from a restaurant?
Trick questions like this come out funny, mainly because it is so far-fetched from reality, I mean, who gets a free trip everywhere every time? But this is a way to evoke mirth and know her better.
4. If you could be an animal, what animal would you be?
Expect her to laugh at this because no one wants to be an animal. But wouldn’t you like to hear her answer and why?
5. What’s the most humiliating moment of your life?
This is going to be funny, especially if she’s moved past the experience. Make her feel comfortable while she tells you this and doesn't make your reaction embarrass her further.
Personal questions to ask a girl
1. What pets did you keep while growing up?
People love talking about the animals they owned, and once you spark the nostalgia feeling in them, the conversation flow. Nostalgia allows people to reminisce, to reflect, and they feel closer to you when they let you into a memory.
2. What’s something you thought you’d grow out of but haven’t?
We all have some habits and quirks we refused to let go since we were kids. It can be an embarrassing or funny answer; whatever ever she gives will sure be personal and exciting.
3. What’s the greatest word of advice someone has ever given you?
This would be an excellent personal question, especially if she implemented the advice. She will tell you why she needed the advice and how it influenced her.
4. If you could change one thing about you, what would that be?
She may be shy by this question, but it’s a good question nonetheless. When she gives you an honest answer, she has let you into a personal space, that’s a good sign.
5. Who or what motivates you to be better?
It could be a popular figure, a late family member, or even a book. Whatever answer she gives, you get to know how that person or thing inspired her.
Flirty questions to ask a girl
1. What are the qualities you love in a man?
This tricky question gives an insight into what she wants in a man and indirectly asking if she’s interested in you. And even better if you find yourself in those qualities she mentions.
2. Where did you get such beautiful eyes?
This is going to make her smile. When you compliment people using questions, you get a better reaction.
3. How do you feel about me?
You are instilling an emotional affection when you ask her this. Even if she hadn’t thought about how she feels about you, she will now.
4. How would you react if I touched you?
Well. Well. Well. A super flirty question that will immediately let her know you’re interested in her. If she’s interested, I suggest you make a move.
5. What do you think is your best feature?
When she answers, remember to acknowledge you feel the same way. Say something like, “I love it too.”
Deep questions to ask a girl
1. What are you passionate about or wish you were more passionate about?
This is a deep question that will let her discuss her passion and why she resonates with that. People love talking about what they are passionate about.
2. Why does society create unnecessary beauty standards?
Deep questions let you know how a girl’s mind works, and it’s a good conversational question. She will be honest and relaxed while answering.
3. How do parents screw up their child?
What’s fun about this type of question is that it isn’t a yes and no or a one-word answer question. Questions that lead to a real, honest conversation is what you want with a girl.
4. Do you think science has done more harm than good?
Argumentative questions are perfect questions. Understanding her opinions is an ideal way to learn more about her and how she sees the world.
5. What do you think about the world? Is it getting better or worse?
This is another argumentative question that lets you in into how she thinks. This question may seem unnecessary, but knowing the views of a girl and listening to it has never gone wrong with anybody.
Dirty questions to ask a girl
1. How was your first time?
Moments like this come up as a good conversation during flirty question sessions. Also, it’s a way to know about her. Was it random, awkward, or remarkable?
2. If I get you a lingerie, would you wear it for me?
Here’s another dirty question. Meanwhile, you may need to buy lingerie in the end in case she prefers to put it on right after you ask her.
3. Do dirty dares turn you on?
Not everyone likes naughty challenge. But if it turns her on, you better come up with some naughty challenge ideas. You could even play a truth or dare sex game together!
4. Have you ever sent someone a naughty picture?
Many dirty questions are related to sexting. Even if doesn’t sound like it, this question can be a lot of fun.
5. What Would Be More Thrilling: Angry Sex or Makeup Sex?
Questions like these make you know her better. Does she prefer sex after a fight or after a truce?
6. Do you have erotic dreams?
Our conscious and unconscious minds are very creative. Won’t you like to hear how wild her mind goes? Is she brave enough to admit her fantasies?
Falling into that silence with a girl while conversing with her because you don’t know what to ask next can be very awkward. The good news is the above questions will help you depending on the relationship you have or want with the girl.
Getting to know a girl requires patience, and most importantly, your questions should be legitimate. Don’t ask just for asking sake, ask because you want to know. It’s easy to point out a guy asking questions because he crammed them and one asking because he wants to know.
Also, be real and natural with her, don’t make it look like an interview session. Pick up the questions you think are appropriate for the kind of person she is and allow the conversation flow. Don’t be too eager to ask questions; instead, be eager to listen to her.